Camp Lover! |
My hopes were dashed last summer, though, when I was looking
at camp for the first time. Not only was I too freaked out to send her because
of her peanut allergy, but the camps in our area were simply not like the camp
I worked at in the past. They could not compare to my camp and my camp was
just not going to happen between her food allergy, her age at the time, and our
location.
Enter OIT.
Loved canoeing! |
So this year, with OIT under our belt, a whole year no less,
I signed her up for camp. My camp.
And I could not have been more excited!
I was especially excited for Madeline to go to camp because as
her days to go drew near, I received a call from an old friend. A special
alumni week was being planned and I was invited to go with her. They had me at
‘Hello!’
Ready to head up. |
I chose to stay just a few nights with a few other alum that I
hadn't seen in way too long – and let Madeline have the nights in between all
to herself. I wanted her to have the true camp experience without me – to bond,
to take risks, to challenge herself without me in the way. And boy did she
ever.
It was exciting to get reports about her and unbelievable to
see her push herself in the way only camp can make happen. While I was not there,
a friend sent me texts, pics, and video, but the smile on Maddy’s face told me
much more. She had an opportunity to do two
very cool obstacles – a high adventure ropes course and a climbing wall that were her absolute favorites. Each
are at least 30 feet up, require children to be harnessed, and have special,
specific safety rules for climbing. Each necessitate kids to utilize high
energy, high patience, and to take some safe risks that may seem very scary,
especially to eight-year-olds. Madeline challenged herself on each of these
obstacles – she was excited to try them and when she came to a difficult part,
the steps she took to continue on, were impressive. With each, she never quit –
she made each of her goals – to the top of the climbing wall and through each
of her obstacles on the ropes course that she had wanted.
On the 'Stairway to Heaven' obstacle. |
“Maddy did awesome! She made it all the way to the top of
the wall. It was so cool to watch her. Like a metaphor for her life, ya know –
at her age all these obstacles she’s had and here she is moving right to the
top, ya know?” Lisa said this to me and I was nearly moved to tears, not
because I missed watching her do it but because really I had been there with
her every step of the way through those obstacles, and this was a person that I had just reconnected with, had only seen our lives through FB and my retelling it recently, not lived it with us. And our lives had been tough lately.
Lisa was absolute right. Later in the week, I had an
opportunity to watch Maddy on the wall and the ropes when her cabin headed up on
each again. I watched her maneuver and manipulate when one path didn’t work on
the climbing wall and when she got stuck on a new and very difficult obstacle
on the ropes course, my girl did not give up, even though it almost brought her
to tears.
Climber ready. |
My daughter is amazing. She is a little fighter, yet compassionate and strong . She is a survivor. Camp is a great place for her to realize the potential she has inside herself and I am so glad it will be there for her like it always has been for me. She’s been singing camp songs ever since she came home, so get ready Camp Algonquin, she’ll be back!